Agree with Val. The firewall looks fine from a load perspective, at least when you ran s7pac. I doubt it is a memory issue but please post the output of free -m.
The firewall does have only 2 cores however, and therefore both cores are pulling double duty as both a SND and Worker core in a 2/2 split. It wouldn't take much traffic to overload the CPUs even though almost all of the traffic is fully accelerated by SecureXL. If you can identify a particular day within the last 30 days when you had the most connection issues (let's say for example it was the 14th of the month which is used in the following command), please post the output of sar -f /var/log/sa/sa14 -P ALL
But I doubt these two commands will reveal any firewall resource issues, and you'll have to look elsewhere. Could be some kind of Check Point code issue in such an old release I suppose, and you need to upgrade.
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