Right, for your outputs I would interpret the 248,130,440 reported by ethtool as legit ring buffer drops, while anything above that is trash traffic (2,102,904 delta for your last data set). The fact that RX-DRP is still incrementing but nothing is advancing under ethtool indicates a constant stream of trash traffic (undesirable EtherTypes like IPv6 or improperly pruned VLAN tags). Legit ring buffer drops tend to come in clumps and not slowly accumulate.
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