I will give you basic command I would do first, it should provide an idea as to why it fails. So, lets pretend IP involved is 1.2.3.4 trying to ssh
You could do this from expert on the fw -> fw ctl zdebug + drop | grep 1.2.3.4 | grep "22"
You can run same command just grepping for port 22
Alternatively, you can also do fw monitor -e "accept host(1.2.3.4) and port(22);"
There is also fw monitor -F filter, which is real good, so say src is 1.2.3.4 and dst is 2.3.4.5 and dst port is 22, it would look like below
fw monitor -F "1.2.3.4,0,2.3.4.5,22,0" -F "2.3.4.5,0,1.2.3.4,22,0"
Idea is this "srcip,src port, dst ip, dst port, protocol"
Needless to say, you dont care about src port, as its totally irrelevant.
Hope that helps.
Andy