I guess I am missing something sorry - So often pictures are worth a 1000 words so I will include some pics below. First is the the link selection configuration from the Primary site - 71 is the normal ISP link 122 is the one I want this connection only to go out of.
The second picture is of the static routes configured for this. The 91-93 are the external addresses of the remote cluster, Eth3 is the external interface of the alternate ISP I want this remote site to connect on.
However my tunnel still is connecting on the 71 ISP even after resetting it multiple times.