So, here it is, as promised. So, let me explain briefly what this is what I outlined. Lots of customers have wrong interpretation about what these fields actually mean. So, top section means thats what PEER would see, NOT what CP would send, unlike bottom section, which refers to what CP sends. Now, if you think about it logically, in your case, it makes sense to select 2nd option I marked (in this case, it would probe all available links, so if one is not available, it would probe next one and so on, till it finds one that responds). This is also most logical, given the situation, as you may have tunnels going over the Internet, like customer I was telling you about, and for them, everything works just right with this setting.
If something is still unclear, we can do remote and I will show you.
Andy