Tim,
Run the following command from clish on the SMS:
show configuration web
Output should be like this:
set web table-refresh-rate 15
set web session-timeout 100
set web ssl-port 443
set web ssl3-enabled off
set web daemon-enable on
At least now you know the port it is listening on and if the daemon is on.
From clish however you can also run the commands to run the upgrade:
installer download <TAB> (shows a list of available downloads)
Type the number to run the download.
installer verify <TAB> (Shows available install able packages)
then when the verify is ok you can run
installer install <TAB> (Shows install able packages)
This should get you on your way.
Regards, Maarten