Try turning on TCP state logging which will show you how the LDAPS connections are ending (gracefully/FIN, non-gracefully/RST, or timed out by firewall):
sk101221: TCP state logging
Can be easily enabled from the SmartConsole for R80+, on R77.30 or earlier it has to be done from the gateway command line.
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